Category: Life

I asked her to move in!

So LJ and I have been together for a few months and she has been stayti8ng with me every night since then the end of January. So as late spring came I asked her to move in officially. This was a big step for me. I never thought I...

Dating post divorce

I can remember being a 20 something, thinking how easy it was to date and how exciting it was. I thought after my separation I quickly learned after my first couple of times, I was sadly mistaken. I did meet a few nice people that I dated for a...

Marriage, separation, divorce, moving on and everything in between

In August of 1998, I was married to the love of my life. The joy and happiness I felt would last for almost 15 years. On January 3rd, 2013, we separated. A whole gambit of emotions came over me. Denial, sadness, denial, rage, anger denial, and emptiness. I would...

My struggle with obesity.

I have always been a “big-boned” guy all of my life.  It became significantly worse after I got married in August 1998.  I stand around six feet tall, and before marriage, I was around two hundred pounds.  After marriage, I did a yo-yo depending on how much I worked,...